Matriarch Doula Mentorship
Update: 4 month mentorship is no longer available. Virtual Mentorship consultations upon request via zoom
Matriarch Doula Mentorship 1:1 Container
A four-month, relational mentorship for doulas ready to deepen, integrate, and practice with integrity
This is mentorship for the long road.
There comes a point in doula work when more trainings are no longer the answer.
You’ve learned the techniques and read the books
You’ve launched the website but you’re seeking that lived experience
You’ve attended the births but now you need help interpreting what the body is holding as you move forward
And now you only have more questions as the path unfolds.
How do I stay present without losing myself?
How do I trust my intuition without abandoning skill?
How do I practice in a way that is sustainable — emotionally, physically, spiritually?
How do I carry what I’ve witnessed without becoming hardened or depleted?
Whether you are deepening into your practice or just starting out
Matriarch Doula Mentorship exists for this season.
Why 1:1 Matriarch Mentorship ?
This four-month container is for doulas who need personalized, attuned guidance - a place where your lived experiences can be spoken aloud, metabolized, and woven into wisdom.
This is not supervision.
It is not evaluation.
It is not business coaching.
It is elder-guided mentorship rooted in presence, nervous system awareness, and respect for the complexity of birth work.
What This Mentorship Supports
In this container, we may explore:
Embodied intuition and discernment at births
Nervous system regulation for doulas
Navigating complex birth dynamics and power
Integration of difficult or unresolved birth experiences
Boundaries, sustainability, and self-trust
Identity shifts as a birthworker
Listening for what is asking to evolve in your practice
Authenticity in Birth Work
Finding Your Tribe
Basics of a Birth Business
Prenatal & Postpartum Visits
Support through Stages of Labor
How to work professionally with the medical team
Navigating Complicated Scenarios
The work unfolds in response to you — not a preset curriculum.
How We Work Together
Schedule a one time consultation or add on as needed
The 4-month container includes: (NO LONGER OFFERED)
1:1 mentorship sessions (8 total)
Nervous-system-aware and somatic practices
Case reflection and lived experience integration
Space for intuitive inquiry and honest dialogue
Optional reflection prompts between sessions
Optional support via text during births (Limited)
Practical tools, worksheets and handouts for you and your clients
Sessions are held in a way that prioritizes safety, pacing, and depth.
Who This Is For
This mentorship is for you if:
You are just starting out
You are a practicing doula or birthworker
You feel called to deepen rather than expand
You are holding experiences that haven’t fully integrated
You want guidance that honors intuition and accountability
You are seeking mentorship, not answers
You don’t need to be in crisis.
You do need to be ready to listen.
Who This Is Not For
This container may not be the right fit if you are looking for:
A certification or credential
Step-by-step business strategies
High-frequency access or on-call support
A quick fix or immediate clarity
This work honors depth over speed.
About Your Mentor
Gabe Lazarus is a holistic birth educator, doula, and mentor offering nervous-system-aware, embodied support for birthworkers.
With over a decade of experience attending births across settings, Gabe’s mentorship is shaped by lived practice, education, somatic awareness, intuition, and ancestral wisdom. Her approach is relational, steady, and honest — grounded in the belief that how we practice matters as much as what we know.
An Invitation
Matriarch mentorship is not about becoming someone new.
It is about remembering what you already carry - and learning how to tend it with integrity.
If you feel the pull toward steadier ground in your work, you are welcome to reach out to schedule a consultation session.
“GABE IS AN AMAZING MENTOR AND DOULA. I FELT SUPPORTED THROUGHOUT THE WHOLE MENTORSHIP AND COULD REACH OUT TO HER WITH ANY QUESTIONS AND ANY TIME I NEEDED ADVICE. SHE IS AN AMAZING LISTENER, A COMPASSIONATE AND EMPATHETIC DOULA WITH TREMENDOUS KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE. I FEEL VERY LUCKY AND GRATEFUL TO CALL HER MY MENTOR AND TEACHER.” ~ CSILLA, (DOULLABYBABY)
Explore the many resources I have developed over the years. Make meetings and classes with clients easy with handouts that have been thoughtfully created by a seasoned birth professional and childbirth educator!